She uses every excuse in the world not to work or get her own place to live. She wont even make an appointment with the county for assistance. She has been homeless before sleeping in her friends warehouse that's why I picked her up last summer to live with me for a few months to help her out but it seems like she just wants to be homless again. I had to tell my coworker to not answer her calls for marijuana anymore because she will spend all her money from EDD on marijuana and ciggs. When I talk to her about this stuff she says I am being hurtful and abusive and I owe her for her giving me a childhood. She guilt trips me, and then tells my husband anything to shut him up. We re expecting a baby and I really need to start nesting forcusing on our baby.