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Carol
what happened here?
I can only tell you what I did for my mom when she experienced this symptom of Dementia.
Mom would see bugs and I would come into her room with a Texas flyswatter (HUGE joke flyswatter) and smack it all around and really put on a show. All the while I was smacking the flyswatter around I was telling the bugs that they broke into the wrong house and if they thought they were going to hurt my mother, blah blah blah, I think you get the picture.
It was total Playhouse 90 but it worked!
Everybody's Dementia is different and what worked for me and my mom may not work for someone else.
I did a LOT of playacting for mom when she saw bugs, people in the closets (used a ball bat for that one) and the theme was always: you're safe and sound and nothing is going to hurt you. Took a lot of energy but it was worth it. Mom is gone now and I would gladly wave that flyswatter around again if I could see her but for a moment.
lovbob
I guess cleaning isn't dangerous, but what is she spraying? If she has some kind of bug spray that she applies excessively, that could be harmful.
What if you "found" an exterminator who did handle lice? And the treatment required that no persons or pets be in the house for 36 hours, all plants must be covered by light drop clothes, and all food be stored behind closed cupboard doors? She would have to stay with you for a night or two, or check into a motel, or stay with a friend. Do you think by the time she got back to her house she would be satisfied that the problem was solved?