Any suggestions on getting my mom, who lives with me to talk about her future. She acts like she is just waiting to die, while at 73 she is in very good health, and her mental state is good too. When I bring up wills, or funeral preparations, she shrugs it off and says it doesn't matter. She is borderline depressed, but refuses any care other than to get BP meds. She has gambled (slots) all her money and is a very non-confrontational person. I need to keep the peace since she lives in our basement, but worry that in the long run, she is putting a huge burden on me that could be avoided.