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I would serv him notice as squatter. with notice finalization of occupancy termination.

He is holding residence hostage by adverse posession.

Did you consider reverse mtg?

DONT KNOW IF FAILURE TO RECOGNIZE POA might work with notification damages 3 x daily cost of care of mother. That would eat up.money he's asking for.
Sorry, like said. When give him money what guarantee he wouldd even go. He evidently has though and researched.
Yet he is holding house hostage.
Short of fumagating and disaster where plumbing not working no water health hazard so health dept condemns.
Maybe move the behaving badly caregivers in with him for housemates.
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when my brother was holding my mother's house hostage, he demanded that she replace the roof on the other house that she owns - that she bought for the sole purpose of housing him. He refused to go back to that house until it was done and I refused to get it done until he left her house. It was a stand-off all the way un until our court date. I knew Mom wanted to replace the roof for him but I also knew that if she did that before he moved, then it would be "now I need a boiler" and then "now I need..." for eternity.

So, we prevailed in court but then, had to wait for the Sheriff's office to schedule the actual eviction. That could have taken months so we were very luckily that he finally moved on his own. Total time from first promised move out to actual move was 5-6 months.

Upon returning to the free house he had left vacant all this time, he started making veiled threats that the house was something that the housing authority would be interested in due to its unsafe, unhealthy condition. My response was to tell him to go ahead and make any calls he felt he needed to make. But, if the house was deemed uninhabitable, I would have no choice but to put him out and abandon or sell it. Then where would he be.

What kind of entitled p$%^k do you have to be to extort money from n 82 year old woman?
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definately move the behaving caregivers in with him as room mates.

Hooe mom intends to forget about the house he moved back into.
would serve him notice he is responsible for maintaining the premesis.
Is he paying rent?
Is house she bought for him a gift?
Is he able to work?
Is he a procrastinating freeloader?
Once hes out.I wouldnt let him back in to clean.
Your mother nor you need financial stressors.
Glad he moved his own accord. Yea right ...
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Well it's all over. My brother got his money and when I went to the house to go over things with the movers I sat down with my brother and didn't realize how sick he really is. He had open heart surgery, has diabetes, and other bad health problems. He's already in Florida and the first thing he did was check himself in a hospital because of all the water he was retaining plus his heart was fluttering. I felt bad for him. Now that this is all over I have peace in that aspect.
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