My husband and I moved in with my mom 2 1/2 years ago, she is 92. We also have a 17 year old daughter and I have muscular dystrophy (neuromuscular disease-no treatment or cure). It’s very difficult. My husband works full time and does most of the physical work. My mother has dementia and outbursts are becoming more frequent. I have a lot of anger and resentment towards my mom and it would be impossible to get her to understand my feelings. She’s very controlling and says horrible hurtful things. My brother lives 3000 miles away and we see him once a year. I feel so guilty but I cannot talk to her without feeling upset and the situation just deteriorates. Any insight is appreciated.