My uncle is DPOA currently my father is almost 100% helpless (Parkinson, dementia) at 75 my mother is 70 and can't watch him 24/7 nor can she handle his outburst. She works full time still. They have an in home health care worker but the doctors and nurses have recommended a nursing home. However, my uncle refuses. Is there anything she can do? Can my uncle be removed as DPOA for not doing what is in best interest of my father? Or can my uncle be forced to take care of my father so my mother isn't in harms way.