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Please keep me posted as to how you are dealing with this...I need suggestions myself.
Once you see how she moves about the toilet and bath, go to a medical equipment rental company and look at all the contraptions, there's bound to be one to help her. Best of luck to you and your Mom.
Since she's exhibiting symptoms of severe depression, it's understandable that smoking is the only thing that seems to give her any pleasure and that taking a long, hot bath every day isn't a priority for her.
Use talk therapy. Find out the underlying causes of her depression, then see how you can team up with her doctor to alleviate these symptoms. When there's no hope that life will get better, every day is the same -- same clothes, same brand of cigarettes. Sometimes you wish you could close your eyes and never wake up; and become more depressed when you wake up and realize you're stuck in a time warp where events keep repeating themselves over and over.
A change of scenery would help. A walk through the park, a nail salon, even picking a pumpkin for Halloween. I'm sure there are a lot of joyful things she used to do, and I don't see why you can't help her relive those moments and feel alive again. Good luck.
Has she always been a person who doesn't bathe everyday?
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