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Gremlin Asked April 2019
Did you have experience with a sibling that expected to be taken care of even after your parents demise?
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moecam Apr 2019
GO FOR YOU!!! - send in Willy Coyote to take care of them - enjoy your freedom
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Llamalover47 Apr 2019
NeedHelpWithMom: Thanks for agreeing with my post!
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PandabearAUS Apr 2019
When both parents are gone due diligence and probate will have to be done (probably you). Sell everything thing, move your sister out, disperse the funds then leave.
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worriedinCali Apr 2019
Probate doesn’t necessarily have to be done.
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surprise Apr 2019
I would not say anything to the siblings beforehand. 1) that causes strife when there need not be any- patents could change executor at anytime. 2) you would only do what was legal under advisement from an attorney or probate judge. There may be a will you don't know about by then.
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Gremlin May 2019
There will not be another will. My parents had there wills drawn up at the same time in 1985. I don't think they looked at them since. My mother passed twelve days so her will is in affect. My father doesn't must care what happens after his death so he sees no reason to update his will in any way.
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Zelda53 May 2019
Yep. Unraveling as we speak. I cannot say that my youngest (of the family) brother actually "expects" to be taken care of but -- Mom is in a nursing home now for six months. They were roommates, sort of (he lived with her temporarily, in between whatever), but that turned into permanent when mom's memory loss became apparent. Then he was like her caregiver. She didn't really need care but she liked having him around. He's her baby. They took care of each other. And that's fine. But then my sister (next door) sent her to the nursing home (prematurely). My brother agreed. Whatever was he thinking, oh my! Now he has to fend for himself. Now, is now.
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