Although I have thought about a future after my parents have passed away, it has been a daily thing over the last eighteen months. With my mother's decline into the sad hell of dementia and move to a nursing home I can feel that future hanging over my head. When that future arrives I have two siblings (out of four) that will find themselves in a very lonely world. A world where nobody is putting them before their own interest as my parents have done all their lives. My brother has left several times but has always returned to his safe harbor. My sister has destroyed the house (hoarder in training) that my parents allow her to live in. The rent they charge her doesn't even cover her bills.
If our parents pass within a year of each other my siblings will look to me and all they will see is the cloud of dust as I roadrunner my way out of here.