Mom calls home constantly crying and asking why I put her in there. It's mentally exhausting trying to reassure her that she is there for therapy and once she gets steady on her feets, she'll come home. Mom is 92 and has been hospitalized 3 times in the last year and half. She moved in with me last year and things worked out great. If she can't walk again, I don't know if I can let her come back home. Such guilt over having to make this decision. Even if I decided to bring her home and paid for 24/7 care, the expense would be $13,000 a month. I would only be able to do that for 3 months as mom's money would be spent. I hate having my mom calling and crying to "get me out of here." My sister and I tried to explain that she is in "rehab" but in a few hours she is upset again about being there and constantly talks about how she wished she were dead or wants to kill herself. It's so stressing. Mom has never been one that liked any change or not getting her way. We wonder if this is the dementia or is she mad because she can't get her way. I don't know if I should try and bring her home and when money runs out, then put her in a nursing home.. or would it be even more frustrating getting home and going back. Just so confused and feel helpless.