Living in a 4 generation house. Mom just doesn't feel needed as my children take on more responsibilities like cooking and cleaning. She gets mad because they don't do things her way or in the time frame she would do it in. She feels like they are pushing her out. As the daughter/mother I get stuck in the middle and can't keep either generation happy. It doesn't help that I am disabled and can't do my part either. Help the stress is killing me and I don't want to continue choosing whose side I am on.