Hubby has been in rehab for 2 weeks. He is progressing really well, behind my back his daughter who flew in town this weekend , to reschedule his care plan meeting she, rescheduled it. It was changed. I just happened to see the paper and she skirted around the meeting change. She will be in town in 8 days again. Do i change it to this week when she is not here.......I wouldnt have minded the change if she had been up front. about it....just dont get the power struggle. I feel she is overstepping her boundaries. hubby was ok changing it but they failed to tell him i didnt know about it. I will be getting a elder law atty Monday.all she really wants is control of the bank account.
Good move on seeing your own atty & ASAP. Hubs may need to do some new paperwork placing you as main point person for his care.
Be there early & often to get him to be positive in his rehab. All this will be noted in his charts btw. Try to make it a point to chat with the therapist in rehab and his nursing staff.
For my moms CPM I always brought some sort of food item.....big bow of grapes or mini apples or mini baked goods. The CPM is maybe 15 minutes but somehow if there's food you get more time. At the end of the CPM - for me - I was asked to sign off on what the plan is. You can write in your concerns in the space where yiu signature or even bring in a written statement of your concerns and you write in "please refer to attached letter by XYZ as wife /dpoa for John Z." which they have to place into his chart. Conversation is good but just doesn't carry the weight & accountability of something written and in thier chart. Comprende?
Good luck in all this. I'm sure there is quite the backstory on his daughter...