I have posted before that it's my mother. Now it's me. I am the senior. I have all my wits about me. Still working. My daughter who in her 30's is the problem. Just out of the blue she called us in June and let out a torrent of anger. She is mad that we didn't pay for her college education and that she had to work to put herself through college. She is also mad that when she was 8 yrs old I wouldn't buy her sidewalk chalk. She is mad that one day she came home from school and needed $10 and I wouldn't give it to her. You get the picture. Things that happened 20-30 yrs ago. So the problem is about 3 years ago husb and I redid our wills. We left an extra $70,000 to her and the house. The rest we left to husband's kids from another marriage. Now daughter won't let me see my grandchildren bc. I want to change my will and I have made an appt to see my atty. My question is do I really want to change the will to give all the grown kids an equal share instead of her an extra $70,000 and the house. If I change it do I want to give her a chance to come around and act better before I do this. Should I tell her that her behavior is really hurtful. All these things are for all time and eternity. Need your advice before I go to the lawyer.