Hey you all, Daddy is at 7a dementia and in a good memory care unit. When I can get him on the phone (he often can't answer the phone 'cause he doesn't know what it is or how to use it) he gets very agitated. "Where am I, come get me". He was a politician and a yacht racing captain. I frequently lie to him and tell him he is in the Caribbean (many of his care givers are from Jamaica) or in Argentina (his dementia doc is hispanic). But he will have to be given a tranquilizer after he talks to me. Question, should I just stop talking to him on the phone? I live five hundred miles from him.