I have a father with early onset Alzheimer's whose attitude and rudeness is becoming intolerable. He treats my brother poorly and it even came to the point where child protective services came. We cannot receive much help because he does not qualify for medical insurance and we do not make enough to pay out of pocket. I know there is other resources I can use like low cost hospitals where they can assist me in finding a skilled nursing facility, but my mother does not want to do it. She is still in denial about her husband having dementia and worse yet would rather take care of him till she gets physically and mentally tired of it, even if it means receiving little to no help. How can I her twenty one year old daughter convince her that this is not right?