Although he has moderate dementia and neurologist says he should. He totaled his car (again). That's the only reason he isn't driving. I am taking him to the store several times a week. Its a long story but I need to minimize the time I spend with him. I am disabled and I struggle to handle my life let alone his. I'm not sure how we would pay for in home help or assisted living but I figure there's no point in worrying about that unless he will go along with it. I suppose this is really just venting because there's no way he going to do anything he doesn't want to do. He is the king of the narcissists. he says 99.9% of people are stupid. Religion is stupid. Everything is going to H%#$#. I'm afraid I'll go over one day and find him at the bottom of the stairs with a broken hip or worse. Do I just wait until something bad happens?