Told him to call and cancel. He is mad about that too. I wrote just a few days ago about him "living" in my family room after a fall that took him to ER. It has been a month and he demanded to go back to his condo. My husband and I were so tired of arguing with him and having him pout. So we took him home.
Now this morning we were to tour the ALF where he was supposed to stay for 1 week while my family is on vacation. (He has no friends and I have no siblings.) Now this morning he says he is not going. He is a big man and I cannot force him into my car. He is quite cognitive for his 91 years, but has mobility issues and is a fall risk. He continues to argue with me about everything. I am tired of arguing with him.
I looked into home health care, but didn't pursue since he said 3 weeks ago he would go to ALF for 1 week. Now I don't have the energy or time to interview and set up home health care.