He is 94, has dementia, frail but stable medically. He is blind, can walk. I work part time as a nurse and we have other caregivers come in when I am gone. He misses his home and family/friends back in Michigan. I am afraid to take him back for visit. The plane ride get to my home in Oregon (2and1/2 years ago) was somewhat harrowing, but he doesn't remember that. I am afraid that if he doesn't get up he will lose his ability to get up. He also has a brother in Texas and an uncle in Florida that would be fun to visit, but I'm not sure I could manage all of that. I am 71 and it makes me tired to think about it.