Okay, so my dad lives with me for the last 15 months since breaking his neck and subsequent 9 months of sepsis issues and rehab. The PLAN is that he divorces my step mom (came to realize she stole loads of money while he was in hospital, plus his treatment before that), then we sell his house which is not conducive to his current physical needs then go to assisted living. this has been the plan for many months.
The problem - he joined an online dating site and met this woman who is so "boy crazy" like a 12 year old. they talk on the phone and message all day. the problem is that he plans on going to visit her. He is not allowed to drive and is about to get a hip replaced. He wants to take a bus to get there - it is 300 miles from our house!! or have her son drive here to get him.
This just has so many red flags to me. I wouldn't even feel comfortable with my capable 22 year old doing this! I have explained the concerns he won't listen. you would think he would have learned from before. as it is i can't even let him have his debit card. I have POA. I am sure this is bizarre but i don't know what to do and he is going next Monday.