I have had problems with my father who is long distance from me, for quite some time. He hates me for reasons I don't understand. I won't give him my regular phone number, but I give him access to my magic jack number for emergencies, which is never plugged in and he leaves abusive messages on it and threats. He has 2 people taking care of him, more than I will ever have but they don't stop him from threatening. Should I cut him off completely? He does not go for medical care because he doesn't want to get caught with his alcoholism and I have called Adult Protective Services but they won't tell me if he's being taken care of adequately.