We keep trying to talk to him about it, but he insists he's fine. He's 81. He lives out of town on a dark narrow road and drives to town to drink, then drives home. He's about to lose his license and insurance and if he does, I know he will still drink and drive. He's going to kill himself or worse, someone else. We try to at least get him to move into town, but "it's too much trouble", even though we offer to take care of everything, etc.. he won't let me clean his house, or hire anyone else to do it and it's filthy. Mom died 4 years ago.