Just under a year Brother’s partner has been gaslighting our Dad, we got video evidence that she was destroying his plants, Brother went mad, screamed at his Dad making him cry, he wouldn’t believe Dad that she was doing these things, she is a train driver, can I report her to HR for the railway, as it is in the hands of Social Services on file, Dad doesn’t want to go ahead just yet, as she has won and Dad is being evicted from the bungalow at the bottom of garden, he doesn’t want to move but has no choice, I don’t feel he is safe, as they ripped down the cameras ,police and social not happy either with them
Good luck to you.
No, you don't go to her job and complain. Her job has no controll over her private life. There is an eviction process that has to be followed. It could take months.
You "don't feel he is safe" so do you mean still being in the bungalow with the bro and gf? Or safe to move out on his own? If APS is involved, then it's as good as it's going to get. The police or an employer won't care about who destroyed someone's plant, evidence or not.
Side 1 : Victim
Side 2 : Villan (or two)
Side 3 : Rescuer
It is clear who is who here.
What is NOT clear is the REAL reason Dad is being 'evicted'.
Reporting the GF (to HR.. what?) will do what? Just fuel more drama.
A productive way for the OP to proceed would be to help Dad work to repair his relationship with Bro + GF. If not possible, help him to look at other realistic home options.
But bottom line your dad now needs a safe and drama free place to live where he can take care of his plants by himself. I wish you well in finding your dad a new peaceful place to live.