I am caring for my 91 year old grandmother with Alzheimer's. She moved in with me because nobody else wants to take care of her. I have no help. I have not left my home for 2 weeks. I can't even go outside to work in the yard because she constantly goes to the bathroom & wants me to watch her because she might fall. She has 3 children that won't step up. She had a nearly 200 acre farm that she has split between her 3 kids, 2 grandsons, & 1 great grandson (my son). My aunt took her to an attorney in January and had the last 55 acres split between her & my mom. The rest of the land was given to the others over 3 years ago. She held on to the last 55 acres because she rented it to a farmer & it was the majority of her income. Now that the land is all divided and she has nothing else to give they are all done with her. I have no rights when it comes to her. Her 3 kids have medical power of attorney & a family friend has POA. I am not strong enough to do all of this. I ask for help but there's always an excuse. I am financially & emotionally drained. I don't understand why in all of their minds they feel like it's up to me to take on this responsibility. If she goes into a home can they take the land back to pay for her care? I really don't want to put her in a home but I can't get any help at all and there's no excuse when there's so many within walking distance that should be helping. I can't keep letting them all hold the fact that the property will be taken over my head. I didn't get any of it so why should I be making all of the sacrifices so they can keep it?