I am a unpaid live in sole caretaker of bed ridden 89 year old bowel incontinent diabetic at her home. Its a old house in a valuable area. My husband has updated kitchen and bathroom, etc. We pay $600 monthly towards real estate taxes. So we are paying to live in the house as caretaker. House desperate for windows so utilities average $800 mthly and varies by season. Not free living. My sibling, from mom's acct, sends $500 mthly for her expenses diapers, insulin, meds, supplies, etc. Real estate tax balloon payment due Nov $4500. He is refusing to send from her trust acct. He chewed me out about the last balloon payment. I told him I did not set the taxes. He feels since I am in the home, I am responsible for all its expenses. My husband works OT & hard but with a daughter in school, etc we are doing our best. I think my name is on her account from where he sends her monthly $500. If it is, and he refuses to send balloon real estate taxes, will I get in trouble if I make the payment from her account for her home's taxes? BTW... he has been here twice in 2 and a half years.