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Start a 2000 legal on your Brother if you have that in your state.
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Also why did you not press charges against your brother for causing to your person?
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I already have a POA. My attorney (though I've called her twice stressing how urgent it is), hasn't called me back. Even after he assaulted me, I had to hire someone to take care of her because he was too busy sleeping. He was the one trying to get her to give him my car (I drive hers now). I told him we have to talk to an attorney, but he kept badgering my Mom about it. I told him to knock it off. The Temporary Restraining Order sent the entitled narcissistic brat over the edge, since he is doing this. Trial for the Restraining Order is May 24.
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I don't know what a 2000 is. And the cop refused to arrest him. Though i had to demand he forward the report to the DA. My Mom backed up his lie. She wasn't even in the room. She is not easy to be with and accuses me of stealing all the time, and tells her friends I'm horrible. They don't see the truth here. I'm having a security system installed (with cameras). This is not going to happen again!
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I am so sorry you are going through this i am a caregiver and familiar with what you are going through you need to get this in a COURT ROOM WITH AN ATTORNEY, this is commen with familys with siblings not there together for the sake of thier loved one ..........i disagree ith elderly abuse against you......... you need to record the home an get proof of what is going on ----------- as for stealing someone needs to havce guarianship over her ,,, its all about her i pray father GOD you give the help so needed .........
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Well, given my attorney doesn't return my calls, and I'm pretty frustrated. I took my Mom to her doctor today. I told him to talk to her alone because my brother is alleging abuse. I heard Mom said I yell at her. What she didn't say is she comes after me, and I have to lock doors to get away from her. The police have been out here 3-4 times when she hit me. We lost a caregiver because my Mom slapped me in the face. I need to get copies from the Police Department of the times they have been here. This is so absolutely totally ridiculous. The reason my brother assaulted me was I looked at his email because I suspected he was taking money & selling things for her (and pocketing some of the money). He was also trying to get her to give her my car (because I drive hers now). She already gave him our Dad's car (which he doesn't insure, so I won't allow him to take her anywhere). But right now the Temporary Restraining Order is still in effect, so he can't contact her.
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I was referred to a new attorney. He's out of the office today, but hopefully I can talk to him and get some good advice.
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I am happy to report that Adult Protective Services notified me that they have closed the case against me! What a relief. Now, when I go to Court, I am going to give him a letter stating he has 30 days to get all of his belongings out of the house, and open a PO Box for his mail. I pay $160/month for off-site storage while I live here and help our Mom. And since he doesn't live here, he needs to find a new "permanent" address -- such as open a PO Box. After June 30, his mail will be returned to sender. Also, any visits with Mom need to be scheduled, and there will always be a third party in attendance. I am also having cameras installed in the house. I am done with his trying to get money from my Mom, not including me in financial matters(when I have the POA). No more!
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Great news! You fought back and held your ground. I am happy for you and proud of you! I hope your story gives the same courage to anyone in similar circumstances. I think you are going to sleep well tonight!
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I am sooooo glad. I'm glad that you are being proactive. And I totally agree about having a 3rd party when he visits. And the cameras. You've learned to watch your back. I'm happy for you.
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I'm glad they closed the case too. So why can't I stop crying? It breaks my heart that I now can no longer trust my brother, his ex-wife or daughter. And when our mother is either placed in memory care or passes, the drama will probably be reignited because I am the POA and Executor (my Mom also designated a family friend in case I am "unable to fulfill my duties.") our friend has always had my back, and tells me when she thinks I'm wrong. She is going to court with me on the 24th so I have someone's hand to squeeze. I've called several attorneys (including one I hired last year to be sure I was doing everything legally). Not one phone call back.
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I'm glad they closed the case too. So why can't I stop crying? It breaks my heart that I now can no longer trust my brother, his ex-wife or daughter. And when our mother is either placed in memory care or passes, the drama will probably be reignited because I am the POA and Executor (my Mom also designated a family friend in case I am "unable to fulfill my duties.") our friend has always had my back, and tells me when she thinks I'm wrong. She is going to court with me on the 24th so I have someone's hand to squeeze. I've called several attorneys (including one I hired last year to be sure I was doing everything legally). Not one phone call back. THE END. For now.
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