What if they meet all or many criteria except one or two? Who has moved a ALZ stage 6 parent to a new facility? What issues did you face?
There is some back story here but..
God this is watching death by a thousand cuts. And you are helpless. I do not wish on worst enemy.
I have had to take a break from being a positive contributor, to a very depressed one. I am sorry. Whatever you can add I am appreciative of. And I am sorry.