So, as you can imagine Mom has ongoing needs.
She needs the dog taken to the vet, she needs prescription pick up several times per month, she needs regular shopping done and so on.
She has lately started giving me tasks, and telling me to just get it done with no regard for my projects.
I sometimes work very long hours and for several weeks straight.\
The problem isn't getting the tasks done, the problem is the timing of the tasks and the reliance on me to complete them.
I am in touch with several of Mom's past paid in home aides. I know these people would do the tasks.
Mom acts like it is my problem achieving this best case scenario for her/
I do not have time right now.
How in the world would you approach this constant pressure to provide what is clearly easier for an aide to provide???
Thank You community members..