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Check to see if your husband could qualify for Medicaid…. each State has different income/eligibility requirements the person must meet. If your State has such a program to pay a spouse to care for their ill spouse, you might feel your husband needs 24 hours of care, the program might decide only 4 hours. And you may need to take some health care courses to qualify. Plus there is a question as to if the State will pay a relative if he/she lives full-time with the person.
Check with your local Council on Aging to see what is available for an Aide to come to the house for a couple of hours. There is no way you can do the job of three Caregivers who each work an 8-hour shift, they get to go home and get a good night sleep thus refreshed for the next day. You would have Caregiver burnout which comes quickly, in a matter of months for some.