Aunt on hospice refused to see the chaplain. Now declining, should we go against her and ask to send the chaplain?

No. It is not your business to go against her wishes
She has the right to decide what she wants, who are YOU to decide what she wants and doesn’t want
She says what she wants, no chaplain go with her decision

NO

If she is happy and feels she is at peace with God her way then why does she need to see the chaplain - sounds like this is something you want not that she wants or needs.

Why would she need to see a Chaplain?

She, of all people, knows what she wants to do to prepare to meet her maker.

I don't understand why you feel she needs a Chaplain. I can see if she was Catholic, last rights and all but Protestants aren't usually that way. Maybe if its "her"minister but she may feel she and Christ have a personal relationship and she doesnn't need a go between.

Chaplains can be of any religion but deal with all Denominations.

Thank all of you for your timely feedback its helpful hugs to everyone I feel better not asking the chaplin to come back now. thanks again

Ask yourself - is the chaplain for her or you? - has she been religious or not? - then you have your answer