My parents in law have decided to move near us (from 3+hrs away) and try assisted living hostel, they are 91 each and doing well, low mobility but still on 2 feet only (no aids yet, not far off). We've found a lovely low care hostel 10 mins away from us, they offer an adjoining couples room so they can be together. our concern is do we take this option, knowing how rare this couples accommodation is, or go for 2 separate rooms in a new hostel 1/2 hour away (currently being built - available in 4 mths) that also offers higher needs care for later on if they need it. assuming they may actually need higher care / nursing care at some point. So far they are 91 and seemingly indestructable. They are obviously declining somewhat in mobility & hearing esp but other health areas going well. My husband is concerned they will be separated at some point if they go in to the low care facility now. I reckon it will happen sooner or later where ever they go and esp for his mum being 10 mins from family is her preference. Does anyone have advice or similar experience?