My husband is 65 and fighting lung cancer. His 63 year old brother lives with us. We own the home and agreed to let the brother live here if he pays his part of the bills and groceries (which he does). Our issue is, the brother sits and drinks beer all day long with his friends outside and does NOTHING to help around the house....literally NOTHING. My husband has had MULTIPLE talks with him about helping out around the house but it falls on deaf ears. The brother has a desk at the entrance to our house that he leaves a complete mess all the time, he doesn’t help with ANY housework....does no cooking and no cleaning. When I say he sits outside and drinks beer all day long, that’s ALL he does. My husband does the cooking and what cleaning he can manage (I help but I am still working public work so I am not home all day). It’s really wearing on my husband both mentally and physically. He’s finally told his brother to find another place to live that we have had enough of his laziness and him not helping out. Now his brother is trying to make both of us feel bad about making him move out. Are we wrong here? My husband and I have enough on our plate so as it is, with him fighting cancer and what we may be facing.