I had to make a rushed decision to move my mom to memory care, she's 66 with Alzheimer's. I feel like I justified why it was time and everyone around me agreed. Now I can't sleep, the guilt is crushing. I constantly call and visit and even though she is fine my brain is filled with guilt. I work remotely and get off at 4, I cook dinner watch and TV and feel guilty, I have the time if she was home? Shouldn't I have just made it work? I miss she's missing this time with us. It's only been a few days and I'm not sure I'm strong enough to keep her there, the stress of caregiving was easier than this anxiety and guilt and sadness.