I don't know what has happened to my family. After all these years, I'm still shaking my head in disbelief. My sister is the only one coming for Christmas, and the thought of that makes me cringe. All she does is put me down and criticize how I do things while she does NOTHING to help my mother. I am so NOT looking forward to it. I'm going to try and focus on the positives...having my 94 year old mom still with us, my best friend coming to protect me from the wrath of my sister, all the great food, etc. I'm so tired of my siblings. We used to be a close family...all of us together on Christmas. I just don't know what happened..