My mom who has multiple health issues, a fib, valve surgery and pacer in Jan, some level of dementia, pinched nerves in back...
She cries about how she is tired of being tired. She has had pretty much everything tested, thyroid, blood counts etc.
She also can't drive anymore, well she was told not to but she still thinks she can but hasn't in over a year. Uses a walker to get around.
I am at a loss to help her, she states she should just die. She used to be extremely independent so I relize this is really hard for her. I work so am not home everyday, she has a bath aide once a week for a shower and PT twice a week, not that it does much.
Yes, she probably is depressed but refuses meds as they make her dizzy
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated