I am the only one to take care of my mom and I'm having health issues. She's in a memory care home, but I'm the one who comes to spend time with my mom, buy her clothes, make and take her to doctor appointments, order/pay for medications, etc. My sibling lives in another state. I'm the only one that lives here. I'm thinking if I pass before her, I would have to hire somebody beforehand to check on her. I don't think my sibling would ever move. What would you do if you were the only one and passed before your parent with dementia?