After I divorced, my 68 year old mom suggested I move in with her until I got on my feet. That was two years ago, and somehow I've become a fulltime caregiver for her. I cook, clean, and run errands for her, anything she basically needs or wants done I do. During this time our relationship has become very strained, as I feel and treated more like I work for her than I'm her daughter. I've come to the decision that it's best for me mentally and financially to begin the process of moving out and finding her someone else to help her. I fear that she will use guilt and could possibly strain our relationship even more, I know there will be consequences, but I feel I need to look after myself as I do her.