I am new to the Forum. I've been caring for dad. Doctors appointments, hospital visits, preparing food, running errands etc. I have a full time job, kids and a husband. He has 4 other kids that DO NOT help, not because they cant, he doesn't ask! My blood pressure is taking a toll on me. I take my pills everyday and its still high! I currently have a doctors appointment on tomorrow to check on it. My pressure this morning was 172/123. Anyway, I have been ignoring his CONSTANT calls, keep in mind that it isn't an emergency! I tell him that I do not feel well and that he has to call and ask someone else for help. That doesn't work! I told him I was tired from last week and he said that it wasn't from him!!! Really! I was running around the city for him all that week plus I had the little ones to tend to once I arrived home. My question to you guys is, what would you do? Am I being selfish for ignoring the calls?