Well, I know the reason. Mom is scared and not well and not thinking clearly, but this morning made me an absolute wreck. I'm currently staying with her (as some of you know) and this morning I went to the wrong side of the closet, the wrong drawer, the wrong everything. Couldn't find this or that, "you better not have thrown this away," not to mention she missed the commode several times last night.
I intend to confront her today. She needs to back off, I am trying my hardest. What do you suggest I say to her. I've got some ideas, such as "you need to be more patient with me," and "give me a chance to find it before you blow up," and "talking to me like that is not ok."
I stay with her overnight, get the caregiver in in the morning, and arrive late for work (they understand). I hold down my job all day then come back home to "hand me the remote to the tv it's too far away," and "push that closer I can't reach it."
Oh yes she could.
Is it ALWAYS going to be this way?