My mom has memory issues, sun-downers, hearing issues and I think she is well into dementia. She has been in her new place, an assisted living facility and it is a great place. She was ok with it in the beginning but now is finding every way possible to hate it after about 1 1/2 months. I know it is early on but my health is suffering trying to get her settled and pleased. Her memory and confusion is worsening every day. We are planing to go South for the winter soon and I am really worried. Btw, I am an only child. My kids are great help. I worry about them while my hubby and I are gone. We are not young either and are retired. We just need a break. Am I being selfish?