Dr will not diagnose her, cuz get DL would be revoked. I am alone and don't believe I can continue to care for her without control of her finances as she is stubborn, and while mostly able to do her own finances occasionally I have to straighten out messes. She's on social security. I don't know how to go about finding a place to care for her, or if I even have a say in where she goes. What do I do?