Totally heartbroken; My honey passed away.

I'm so sorry Dusti.

Dusti, my condolences. Your words touched me. I am just so glad that you were able to see him while alive. I was worried that his brother didn't make it in time. But your hubby was able to hang on long enough for them to make it. I'm glad that hospice was there for both of you. You take care.

You're always welcomed to come back here to read, comment. Now that both of my parents have passed on, I went through a stage where I felt odd commenting here. Like I no longer belonged here since I'm no longer a caregiver. I found out that others have gone through this, too. And still come back here to comment. Come when you feel the need to update us on your life. It's fine. Anyway, I think some of us would like to see updates with your current mysterious health issue. {{HUGS}}

Oh Dusti! I'm so sorry to hear this news.

I'm glad that both you and your honey had loving people with you for comfort and support. Go on taking good care of yourself, now, won't you. Are your BIL & SIL still with you?

Dusti, please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved honey and partner. I am so glad to hear the end was peaceful for him, and I hope you can find comfort in memories of all the loving and fun times you had together. You loved him well!

God bless and definitely don't be a stranger here.

Dusti

so sorry, hope you can rest in the days ahead

come back here often, we're still your support

(((((Hugs,)))))), Dusti.

Ahh, Dusti, I am so sorry. Now rest and take care of you. You did a great job caring for him and he appreciated it and loves you even more for it.

Dusti22,
I'm so sorry you lost your Honey.I know you loved him very much and took such good care of him.
I hope you will stay here on AgingCare to give and receive support.
Take good care of yourself in the days ahead.{{{hugs}}}, Lu

Oh Dusti, I know you’re heartbroken and that translates into so many other feelings like loneliness, emptiness and simply put, a deep sadness. But, if there is something you can be sure about is that you had a miracle happen in your life that so many others don’t, and that is to have actually known what true love feels like. You gave true love and you received true love,

Your honey even at the end of his journey was worrying about you and telling his brother and wife to take care of you, his love!

Both, caregivers and our loved ones who we care for, go through so many changes through this journey, that there are moments (so many!) when we feel so tired, so overwhelmed, so sad, angry..so done! And that applies to both sides. But it is all driven by the intense situations we are having to go through. The bottom line and the most undisputable truth is that we LOVE, we love and we live our love with everything it brings, every challenge and every joy.

At the end, when your honey was being let free from all the pain, physical and emotional, he was left with the feeling that is really the only feeling that matters, his link to you which will last forever, his love for his sweet honey!

In the middle of all you’re feeling don’t forget that blessing Dusti, the blessing of his love to you and your love to him. That never leaves, never changes.

Now rest, rest your mind, rest your body. Give yourself time to just be. Then get your life in a new order and do what your honey wants you to do for him, the ultimate gift you can give him and yourself: Take care of YOU!

A big hug and please keep coming by dear Dusti! You and your honey will be in my prayers.