I havent been on in a while and changed profile name an pw cuz nosey husband got on so......hubs and i own a rental property that sis n law is soon moving into and it needs work to say the least so i had father in law keep an eye on sue mainly because the toilet is on the second floor and i just didnt want to have to worry about her or the stupid dog she insists we take everywhere. Went and painted mowed etc. Well we got back to mom in laws to pick up HER mother and f in law tells us that sue TRIED TO LEAVE. SMH my heart dropped, he tells us that when he found her just outside but in the garage (breezeway) her walker laid on its side in the garage and she was sitting down on the steps. She didn't fall, but realized after she dropped her walker she wasn't goin anywhere an sat down and when her asked her what she was doin she said going home. When he told us my 7yr old laughed and so did my hubs! I got pissed however and yelled at hubs and kid and said IT'S NOT EFFING FUNNY! They just kinda looked at me like i was just a b*tch and i proceded to tell them WHY its not funny. Tht if it has gotten to the point where she only wants to be up my ** and only mine we have a very big problem. I have 2 kids 12,7 and i have lots and lots of responsibilities and cannot take her EVERYWHERE with me. I have been done burned out her dr even sees it apparently nobody else does tho. I'm forgetful moody tired find myself drinking too much and in general not wanting to do sh*t except get away from sue and i dont feel bad for it. Its been 2.5 yrs since i started takin care of her i get at most a few hrs away 1-3 time a month, its not enough! I havent had an overnight away since june. Friday i forgot to take her to get bloodwork, shes got more health issues now and is on warfarin and hydroxurea and a fall risk all the time. My question is should i start taking her somewhere more often since she has become so so reliant on bein with be and im toasted or what? I dont like the fact tht all she wants is to be home im 38 i deserve time to do whatever the hell i want away from her without worrying about her taking off. I need advice comfort whatever.