My 67 year old hubby won’t wear his false teeth!

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My hubby won’t wear his false teeth. He looks like a 90 yr old. He constantly moves them around while he’s talking. He says they don’t hurt but refuses to glue them in with the adhesive. It’s so disgusting I refuse to talk to him when he’s sticking them in and out of his mouth. Grrrrr...

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This is a good idea Lilicalani had. Dental implants are the way to go. But of course not cheap and he can’t smoke, be diabetic and must take scrupulous care of them so they don’t fail. So there are stipulations. Does he have dementia? You didn’t say.
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Wonder if he's a candidate for dental implants? Maybe he could have a few dental implants, just enough to anchor a set of partial dentures. Partials are less irritating than full dentures, for some folk.
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Just an opportunity to agree that dental phobia is a real (and imo justifiable) thing. Learned long ago not to ever put someone down for a poor dental situation because those people know and are struggling. Some have experience pain, trauma or insensitivity by dentists (and often more than one), some have inherited poor teeth or poor luck, and the expense of care is dreadful. Even insurance doesn't cover all of the costs. Maybe this person doesn't like the taste/smell of the adhesives and needs a different brand in addition to a new dentist. There's no law against meeting someone for a consult to see if you like them before going forward...
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besticanbe, Oh my, too funny!
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Here's a little 'ditty' to cheer you all up:

When I was nursing In England, I told a trainee nurse to brush everybody's dentures. She went round the (ward) unit, collected them up in a bowl, brushed them all then couldn't remember which patients they belonged to!!!
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His mouth. His teeth. You’ve set your boundary: you won’t look at him while he’s playing with his dentures. As Elsa suggested, let it go. Ps—dental phobia is a significant issue for many people, just like all phobias.
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My mom once accused people of stealing her bridge. With her, Alzheimer's was accompanied by paranoia. I tried to reason with her, that no one would want her bridge, but it did no good. Do you know where it was? In her mouth!
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Sounds like they no longer fit! He shouldn’t be easily able to do that if they were a proper fit?
That would drive me nuts, too!  Can you “misplace” them and try for new ones?  I know they’re not cheap.  Sanity in caregiving is worth the expense if you can handle it financially.  
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Having worked in dentistry for over 35 years, a good fitting set of dentures should not be moving around. My dad who has had dentures since he was in his 30’s still wears his and he has hardly any mandibular bone ridge to support the lower denture. But he doesn’t go moving it around like your hubby.
My guess is he has developed a nervous habit and it’s now a "thing" to him. But if he’s not wearing them that will affect their eventual ability to fit him. He needs to wear them or he will have issues keeping them in or having them hurt. What is his response when you ask him why he doesn’t want to wear them??
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If he doesn't want to wear them then you need to pick your poison, either let him go without or put up with him playing around with them. (Personally I'd pick option #1).
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