Long story short I have always been the one to make grown up decisions even when I was just a child. I would always help my mom out and have her back through anything no matter what. Anything I had was hers and if I didn’t have it I would break my neck to make sure she were happy. However, I never knew how much she been using me and taking my kindness for weakness until recently.
I helped her with her moving situations by myself while attending online schooling. I even allowed her to stay with me for a couple of days until she can get help. I live in a housing apartment complex so everyone knows how strict they are. But obviously she doesn’t care and won’t leave. Recently I told her not to smoke in my house because my son had a respiratory infection and she snuck and did it and lied about it when I questioned her. Prior to that I told her not to bring a lot of bags with her because she's not staying but she did anyway. I asked her when she's leaving because she can’t stay. She keeps saying I’m waiting on my letter for voucher for housing, which isn’t a guaranteed. I told her that the management said either she leaves or we all have to get out by next week and she just shrugged and ignored me. She just got a job after 10 years of not wanting to work and never having a job longer than 6 months since I can remember. I’m always helping her, but now I want her out so my son can go back into his own bedroom. Lord knows I regret helping her this last time and desperately wish I could take it back. Sorry this is long I just need to vent and don’t know where else I can go.