This is a position none of us ever envisioned when helping our parent. Don’t blame you for feeling drained, it’s exhausting physically and certainly emotionally
OMG, been there. It looked like the toilet thru up. We had a throw rug we had to throw out. I had to clean her bathroom before I could give her a bath. It took me 3 hours to clean up. I used a bowl of vinegar and it helped to absorb smells.