Dad passed away this morning...

I send my condolences, Windyridge. I'm glad your father had a peaceful death and that you were able to be part of his final months. You have been a great resource and support to others here as well, and I wish you all the best in your life journey after caregiving. Carla

Windyridge,
I am sorry for your loss, I send you my sincere condolences.

(((Gentle hugs)))
I am so sorry for your loss.

May you receive peace your heart and be comforted by many precious memories of your life with him. Condolences.

Dear "Windyridge,"

I am so sorry for the loss of your father this morning but, am thankful when you moved him near you last October you were able to visit him daily and when the pandemic came along you had many "window visits."

I'm so glad he had no pain and wasn't in distress. Like you said his long battle with dementia is finally over and now he will be beside "mom" in WV. I know the pain will still be there but, you were very loving and caring in the process as you dealt with it on your own.

May God surround you with His love, mercy and comfort!


"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4

Windyridge, I have so missed your voice on the forum, but you were understandably so busy. I hope that, like me with loss of my brother, that there is at least a deep sense of peace and release for your Dad and for you yourself. I am so sorry. I can't imagine anyone doing better than you did, move and all. And I think when there is so much done, so much resolved, that there can be great peace. I hope so and hope you will stick around because you could do so much to help others still struggling. Thoughts with you.

I'm so sorry Windy - you have my sympathy 🤗

(((((((hugs)))))) windy. My deepest sympathies on your loss. I am glad your dad's passing was peaceful You were an awesome care giver for your parents, though I know they didn't always appreciate you. Well done!!! It's so good he was closer to you this past year. Look after yourself!

I'm so sorry, Windyridge. May he be at peace, indeed.

My condolences over the loss of your dad. So glad to know his passing was peaceful and that hospice was able to achieve that goal for all of you. Sending you a big hug and a prayer for peace

Windyridge, I am sorry for your loss.

May God grant you peace and comfort during this time.

He was blessed to have a son that cared so much.

Windyridge,

So sorry for your loss of your Father.
(Both parents, really).

You are a good Son!

Windyrige, I have followed your journey with your parents back to when they were still living in their home, the many challenges [some comical], to going into the nursing home together, the passing of your Mom, and the moving of your Dad closing to you.

My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

I am saddened to hear about the passing of your Dad. I am glad that you were able to give your Dad the oppportunity to have a peaceful death. May happy memories of both parents carry you through your sorrow.

Aw, Windy, I'm so very sorry to hear about your dad's passing. I will never forget your many kindnesses to me when my mom was dying.

This is a real community here; there are times I feel closer to you all than anyone else. ((((Hugs)))))).

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's never easy, losing someone you love. Best advice I can give, is take all the time you need, to grieve, to sort through their things, to just get your mind wrapped around the fact that they have gone home. Don't make any hasty decisions about what to do with their belongings - that could lead to regrets. (of which I have plenty, and it's not a good place to be) You have my prayers. God is with you, every step you make.

WindyRidge, I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. I’ve followed your journey with your parents, even if they weren’t capable of telling you, you’ve been an amazing son to them and I’m sure through the struggles they were grateful for you. We’re in the same boat now, the last person who knew us from our start is gone, it’s a foreign feeling. I wish you peace and the comfort of memories of happier times. I also thank you for the wisdom you’ve shared here

Dear Windy
I am so sorry about your dad. You shared a great deal with us about your parents last few years. Your posts stand out in memory with the many issues you faced head on but with compassion and love. The moves, the dental issues, the clearing of the home, your moms services. The regular visits. I just read recently that you were volunteering for hospice. I always looked forward to your posts and your ability to move forward with the issue at hand. Take care and know you make a difference to many.

Thank you all so much for the kind words. It’s so nice to read all of your nice thoughts after a long couple of days.

Windy, I echo what others wrote, especially about the advice you've given to others in need.    Advice from a man is different from that of a woman, and I appreciated your insights that I wouldn't have considered.

You've journeyed a long way with your parents, from the rush visits down to WV whenever a crisis occurred to support of both parents until your mother passed, then when you brought your father back here.   That was I think an excellent choice, especially for him.     You gave up your life to be with them, comfort and guide them.

I've no doubt that that guidance helped ease both your mother's passing earlier, and your father's now.   

I wish you peace as you go forward, and may the memories of good times as well as the support you willingly and lovingly provided comfort you in the days ahead.

I’m sorry about the loss of your father. Please accept my condolences. Even when it’s expected, it still painful for the family. It was fortunate that he died peacefully. I hope that brings you comfort. Take care, Windy.

Windy, I am sorry for your loss. And thank you for the many stories you have shared.

So sorry for your loss.

My condolences, and best wishes for the next difficult few days and weeks. Margaret

Windy,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. My dad passed away in August. My prayer for you is to feel God’s wisdom, clarity, insight, peace and rest. Thank you for sharing your journey with us on this forum. You helped me and many, many others by knowing we are not alone. You are a blessing.

Windyridge -

Time, at last - to lay down your sword and shield. The war is finally over, with no winners or losers - just peace finally for all.

You have been a valiant protector and I have always appreciated and admired the level of dignity and respect with which you treated both of your parents - even when it made things more difficult for you.

As the minutes and hours come - of looking back and reflecting on this time and the choices made - know you can hold your head high in a battle well fought.

With sympathy - Rain

Rainmom, your post is very poetic, sympathetic, and lovely in the sentiments and thoughts you expressed.

So sorry Windy. You took such good care of them. Example of a man doing the caregiving arrangements without being totally consumed. I’m glad your dad is at peace.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I fear the day i have to accept this with my fiance who's had Alzheimer's for 6 years. Your dad is now in a place of peace and i pray the lord helps you find peace. God bless you.