Have been caregiving 10 years already to a healthy 89 year old who made no effort to recuperate after a fall. Quit walking. Doesn't dress. 7 years it took her to change her own sheets. She is a narcissistic waste of a mother. Said I owe it to her for creating me. Said she did her "duty" having children. Didn't talk to my husband for 17 years never apologized but lives in his house. She is the most hateful selfish woman and I cannot do this much longer or I will break down myself. She won't sell her house so she can go to assisted living and she is killing me and ruining my marriage snd my life and she has no health problems except fear snd selfishness. My brother refuses to help. He hates her too. I am so depressed and angry I can barely function. I have nowhere to turn to and no one to help me. I pray for her to pass away so I can live my life. She has taken half of my married life. The hurt she has caused my heart will never be forgotten or forgiven and I will never talk to my waste of a brother ever again.