How Caregiving Can Affect Your Health


According to AARP’s 2015 Caregiving in the U.S. Report, just over 34 million Americans provide unpaid care for someone over age 50. Assuming responsibility for another person’s health, finances and happiness is, of course, a stressful undertaking. Complicating matters further, the majority of these informal caregivers are ill prepared and have little support to assist them in their endeavors. This has turned into a growing public health issue as seniors live longer, require more intensive care and look to family members to help them remain in their own homes as they age.

While helping a loved one manage their health and remain in the community can be very rewarding, caregivers often feel overburdened as they try to meet their needs, look after their own families, and perform at work. Self-care is the first thing to drop off the priority list, but this can have devastating effects.

The Psychological Toll of Caregiving

When stress is short-lived, the results are rarely damaging. In fact, acute stress plays a key role in enhancing focus and motivation to help us power through a challenge. However, when stress becomes a constant in life, it can become overwhelming. There are already strong emotions at play when someone you love is ailing. Not only are caregivers genuinely concerned for their loved ones’ wellbeing, but they are also directly responsible for it. Pressure to perform often comes from the care recipient, other family members, medical professionals and yourself.

Over time, these emotions and the intense pressure can transform into feelings of anger, resentment, frustration and exhaustion. Since there is minimal support available to caregivers, loneliness and sadness can also arise. Most family caregivers do not anticipate how long their responsibilities will last. The average duration of this role is four years, and those caring for individuals with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia can end up providing care for a decade or longer.

Caregivers who ignore the effects of chronic stress and do not prioritize their emotional health are at risk of developing caregiver burnout and more serious mental disorders like depression and anxiety. It is crucial for caregivers to be keenly aware of their emotional limits and regularly take inventory of their moods and behavior. If you’re irritable, experiencing mood swings and having difficulty concentrating, it’s time to take a step back and evaluate how you can minimize your responsibilities.

Read: How to Identify and Minimize Caregiver Burden

The Physical Effects of Caregiving

It is well known that mental and physical health are closely linked. Long-term stress can wreak havoc on dietary habits, sleep quality, and the immune system, contributing to headaches, fatigue, digestive problems, heart disease and even substance abuse. All of these factors can be detrimental to a healthy person, but for caregivers with existing medical issues, they can be life-threatening.

Caregivers experience declines in their health due to poor diet, lack of exercise, ongoing sleep deprivation and failure to engage in preventive health measures, such as doctor’s appointments, immunizations for flu and pneumonia, and recommended screenings for cancers, high cholesterol, and diabetes. A shortage of time, energy and funds are typically to blame for these oversights, as many family members place their loved ones’ needs before their own. The intention behind this gesture is good, but it can ultimately backfire.

An infamous study in the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA) showed that senior caregivers who experienced care-related strain had a 63 percent higher mortality risk than senior non-caregivers. Prioritizing your loved one’s needs is noble, but who will care for them if you are hospitalized, require care yourself or pass away?

Self-Care Is Crucial for Caregivers

No caregiver is capable of being constantly “on duty,” and this includes professionals like nurses and doctors. Time off from providing care is not a luxury or an indulgence; it is a necessity. The best way to manage your mental and physical health and prevent problems from arising is to incorporate regular respite into your loved one’s care plan so you have the time and ability to care for yourself.

Respite care comes in many forms and ensures that your care recipient receives the supervision and assistance they need, allowing you to lend your full focus to other important tasks. In-home care services, adult day care, other family members, and senior centers can all provide a welcome reprieve from the responsibilities of caregiving. Your newfound free time could be used to go for a walk outside, attend your own doctor’s appointments, take a well-deserved nap, spend quality time with friends, or engage in a hobby you love. All of these things will help you mentally recharge and safeguard your physical health.

Read: Where to Find Respite: Resources for Caregivers

Naturally, you want the best for your care recipient, but you cannot provide that for them if you are not at your best. Without adequate self-care, family caregivers can jeopardize their own wellbeing as well as that of their loved ones.

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The link to caregivers physical and mental wellbeing is quite well documented in the research. Caregiver burden and feelings of depression are well linked particularly in carers who a ill-prepared for the task. Good news though - making time for yourself by re-engaging your leisure activities, eating well and incorporating exercise has been demonstrated to clearly reverse those trends!
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As a full time Caregiver to My Mother Who had been diagnosed with Alzheimer's in mid 2013, Im aware just how demanding this role is. We Caregivers do NOT apply for this role, but it is thrust upon Us when We' never saw it coming. Mum is 86 years, and a real sweetheart. She's so thankful for all I do, and keeps telling Me, there's a place in Heaven waiting for You, but I care for Mum with great affection, and love and NOT just a sence of duty alone. I've found My own Family play a spectator role, and offer no assistance to Mum or Me, this is burning Me out, since Im given no time out for Myself to shoot the breeze, and chill out, but I have promiced Myself that I will keep strong in mind, and withstand the trials that Azs throw at Me, as I must be well to take care of My por Mother. Mum would not wish to be put into a Care facility, nor could I afford it, since in Ireland today..Care homes charge crippling fees, eg €53,000 per year. However I am aware that when Mum enters the later stages of Azs, She will require professional care, then I will have no other choice. All I can do between now and then is My very best, and just take it ONE DAY AT THE TIME.