Seniors who Refuse Care
Refusing Care Articles
What To Do When Elderly Parents Refuse Assisted Living
What's a caregiver to do when their elderly parent refuses assisted living or nursing home care but isn’t safe at home? In some cases, guardianship may be an option.
60 CommentsWhy Seniors Refuse Help
Aging parents are often resistant to receiving assistance from their grown children—even (and sometimes especially) when they desperately need it. Researchers shed light on why convincing an older adult to accept help can be so tricky.
29 CommentsSenior Living Tours: What to Do When an Elder Refuses to Get out of the Car
Often caregivers manage to convince their aging loved ones to tour a long-term care facility, only to find that upon arrival they won't budge from the car. Use these tips to empathize with your parent and encourage them to give senior housing a chance.
5 CommentsA Geriatrician’s Take on Elders Who Refuse to Go to the Doctor
Fear, denial, thriftiness, distrust, and embarrassment are common reasons why seniors avoid doctor’s appointments. Fortunately, there are strategies caregivers can use to ensure aging loved ones receive the medical care they need.
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Refusing Care Questions
Advice on 60-year-old SIL who is mentally ill: Paranoia, schizophrenia, bipolar, suicidal, has been evaluated, but refuses medication.
7 AnswersDawn88 Answered Feb 5, 2026Declining elderly parent refuses care; adult child cannot be guardian, seeking experiences with petition for guardianship.
3 AnswersMG8522 Answered Feb 4, 2026My 73 yr. old husband is a smoker who will not wear men's Depends and is a fall risk. Any advice?
8 Answers97yroldmom Replied Feb 3, 2026Husband in assisted living constantly soaking disposable underwear, chair and bed pads, and his clothing. Refusing to cooperate with staff.
11 AnswersTouchMatters Answered Feb 2, 2026
Refusing Care Discussions
How do you handle your parent being angry about the idea of going into a memory care facility?
7 CommentsLlamalover47 Commented Jan 9, 2026Tempering burnout when there’s no help in sight.
6 CommentsDanielle123 Commented Dec 3, 2025I am now more of an overseer of my husband's health. When he does get sick, through his own fault, I have to care for him. I resent this.
14 CommentsBurntCaregiver Commented Nov 3, 2025How do I get him to go to memory care, if he keeps fighting me?
8 Commentsmommabeans Commented Jan 2025
Refusing Care Related Topics
- Alzheimer's & Dementia
- Dementia Behaviors
- Cognitive Decline
- Aging in Place
- Violent Behavior
- Signs of Dementia
- Memory Loss
- Cancer
- Caregiving
- Mild Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Dementia Wandering
- Adult Day Care
- Sundowner's Syndrome
- Lewy Body Dementia
- Chemotherapy
- Area Agency on Aging
- Home Modification
- Severe Dementia
- Early Onset Alzheimer's


