My mother puts a heavy weight/guilt/blame for just about everything that occurs in her life... Not only is it time-consuming, but it's effected my health, friends and any kind of social life I had (or could have had)... Then, if she gets sick (which she'll 'blame' me for)... I am even more sick... My mind is a mental wreck... So, is it right for a grown 'child' to have to be responsible for their parents happiness?... (for the past 10 years I've been living 'her' life, with little time for my own... She has to get 'into' everything I'm doing... )